Tracy, mom of 2 daughters, ages 8 and 5:
"We own one, but it's not hooked up to anything
(hasn't been for years), so the girls see no television at all. We
can, however, choose educational/cultural/travel DVDs and videos from
the library, which is what we've found works beautifully.
For us, perhaps the biggest benefits have been having more time
together as a family--making music, playing games, and doing art or
science projects/experiments. The other huge bonus is, of course, the
fact that the girls are not exposed to a commercial, consumerist
culture that I find absolutely abhorrent.
When they've seen commercials on the TVs at doctor's offices or
wherever, we've been able to have talks about marketing
aimed at
children and I'm delighted to see them becoming so wise to that sort
of ploy. We also don't have children that want the "latest"
whatsit
and they don't have the gimmes when we're in stores. They're
learning
the value of money and the choices we have to make with what we have.
By not indulging our every whim, we're able to live on one income
instead of both of us going out to work. That's something we value
tremendously. It's all a win/win if you ask us.
I know there are some people that think we're raising children that
won't "fit in" with their peers because they don't know
what's cool.
I'd counter with the assertion that we're raising children with
parents who care enough to set an example that family comes first, and
that time spent together outdoors or gathered around the table
talking, creating, and playing with others is of far more real value
than trying to live up to some
ever-changing idea of "cool". Who
wants
to raise a conformist? I'll trust the future to kids who've learned to
think for themselves with the support of parents who are very much
present in their lives."
Cynthia, mom to a son, 13:
"As of date, the only television my son and I have watched since his birth is [the 2008] presidential debates and the election returns on Nov 4. We have
a 13" TV with a built-in DVD player that sits in a cupboard and we only use
it to watch an occasional movie.
What does your son think of not watching TV regularly?
He really hasn't commented on it. Since he has never watched TV, what is there to miss? He is an extremely creative kid so he is always working on some project or another. He is also an avid reader and spends an inordinate amount of time outside (weather permitting).
Why and when did you decide to do away with regular TV watching?
Actually, I have never been a TV watcher. Always something more interesting for me to do. To be bluntly honest, I refer to it as an idiot box. I made it a conscious choice to eliminate television before the birth of my son and never looked back.
Have you had any negative comments from family or friends regarding living essentially TV-free?
I have always walked to the beat of a different drum, so not watching TV is just one in a long line of many alternative choices I made/make in my life. I get my news/information from the internet and like my son, am an avid reader.
Jennifer, mom to two children, a son, 8 and daughter who is 3 1/2:
"We stopped our cable when Eric was about 2, we were looking for ways to save money and he would not let me watch TV at the time, so it seemed an obvious thing to do. Eric has asked every once in a while for a "TV with channels" but otherwise it's been a non-issue, although watching TV is a highlight of our hotel visits. In the last year we (especially my husband) have been making use of the internet-as-TV a lot too, although the kids tend to watch short things on YouTube."